A Relationship With a Narcissist
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Sex With a Narcissist is Often Ritualistic and a Form of False Worship!
If you’ve ever been in a sexual relationship with a narcissist, you would notice that the sex was draining, confusing, trance-like, addictive, or degrading — and that is because it was not intimacy, it was actually ritualistic energy siphoning.
Many don’t realize this: what narcissists disguise as intimacy is actually a form of worship they demand from their victims.
Narcissists crave adoration. Their entire existence revolves around being fed with attention, praise, and control.
This craving for worship is not just psychological it is demonic. It mirrors Satan’s fall, who said: “I will ascend… I will be like the Most High” (Isaiah 14:13-14).
When a narcissist engages in ritualistic, degrading, or manipulative sexual acts, they are not simply seeking pleasure. They are feeding their altar and serving their demons.
They mask perversion as “intimacy,” but in truth they are compelling the victim into a deceptive covenant of worship.
To the narcissist, the sexual act becomes a liturgy: in that they demand control over positions, pace, or symbolism (mirroring occult ritual control).
Narcissists often incorporate degradation, humiliation, or dominance (to establish god-like superiority).
They thrive on secrecy and taboo (which feeds demonic gateways).
They also make the victim perform acts they would not normally do a form of coerced sacrifice.
Unknowingly, the victim becomes a worshipper at their altar. Each moan, submission, or orgasm becomes (in the narcissist’s darkened mind) a form of praise to their godhood.
What the victim thinks is love or passion is in fact a demonic exchange an altar raised in the bedroom.
Their body becomes the sacrifice. Their soul becomes the offering — and the narcissist sits as a false idol on the throne.
This is why so many leave these entanglements feeling empty, violated, and spiritually bound. Because they unknowingly participated in a ritual of false worship.
Ancient Baal and Ashtoreth worship often involved temple prostitution, orgies, and ritualistic sex. The intent wasn’t pleasure alone but the summoning of spirits through bodily worship acts.
Narcissists (consciously or unconsciously) mimic this pattern by turning the bedroom into a temple, the body into an altar, the act into a sacrifice, the victim into an unwitting worshipper.
“Shake yourself from the dust, O captive daughter of Zion; loose yourself from the bonds of your neck” Isaiah 52:2.
Your body belongs to God. Your worship belongs to God — and when you renounce these counterfeit covenants, every false altar must fall.
Beloved, discern the spirit behind the mask.
What looks like intimacy may in fact be idolatry.
Worship no man. Worship no woman. Worship The LORD your God, and Him only shall you serve. (Matthew 4:10)
A Relationship With a Narcissist
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The LORD began to reveal that many who fall into relationships with narcissists do not realize they are being drawn into worship rituals disguised as intimacy.
These individuals, driven by spirits of pride, seduction, and control, demand constant validation and pleasure.
Without knowing it, victims are drawn into a form of idolatry the narcissist sitting as a false god, the bedroom serving as the temple, and the sexual act becoming the altar.
This is why survivors often feel drained, empty, or spiritually bound after intimacy. What appeared to be love was in fact a counterfeit covenant.
When intimacy occurs, virtue is exchanged (Luke 8:46 Jesus felt power/virtue flow out of Him). In godly covenant, this exchange is mutual and life-giving. With narcissists, it is one-sided extraction.
You leave depleted, foggy, and spiritually heavy.
They leave empowered, puffed up, and temporarily satisfied.
This is why many victims experience spiritual dryness, financial blockages, confusion, and even sickness after intimacy with narcissistic or occultic partners.
The Word of God says, “The two shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24; 1 Corinthians 6:16). This union is covenantal.
A narcissist uses sex to tether victims to their demonic system.
You inherit their judgments (sudden misfortunes). You carry their spirits (lust, rage, depression). You feel tied and unable to leave (spiritual chains).
This is why leaving such relationships often requires deliverance, not just willpower.
“If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.” John 8:36.
It is time to be free, be delivered in Jesus’ Name!
Shalom
~ Syreeta Thomas
my name is Stacy.I am in Hawaii.
Please pray for my deliverance from this awful soul-tie.
I couldn’t contain, and after 3 months we became intimate. I’ve repented and took it to the lord from the very beginning, but I’ve stumbled. Then just like that…poof he’s gone! i thought i was falling in love. I could see a future together even.
I am so devastated. its been a month already, no contact and i am still so hurt. When does this feeling go away? please pray sisters. I need peace for my heart.
Im Moment habe ich keinen Kontakt zum Narzisst und ich werde sobald ich Freiheit habe endgültig raus gehen. Ich bin 7 x aus der Gruppe rausgegangen und wieder rein gegangen,
Das ziehen war so stark.Das will ich nicht nochmals erleben,zuerst distanziere ich mich
Von ihm.
Frage: spüre ich wenn der Narzisst an mich denkt oder von mir sexuelle Fantasien hat?
Durch seiner sexuelle Fantasien bekommen dämonische Mächte Kraft und können mich mit unreine Gedanken und Gefühlen angreifen. Oder sehe ich das falsch? Grade heute ist das ziehen zu ihm ziemlich stark. Danke für deinen Feedback Shalom
[ HKP : “At the moment I have no contact with the narcissist and I will go out for good as soon as I have freedom.
I left the group 7 times and went back in, The pull was so strong.
I don’t want to experience that again, first I distance myself Of him.
Question: do I feel when the narcissist thinks of me or has sexual fantasies about me?
Through his sexual fantasies, demonic powers get power and can attack me with impure thoughts and feelings. Or am I seeing this wrong? Especially today, the pull to him is quite strong.
Thank you for your feedback Shalom” ]
Ich bin in einer Internet Gruppe und der Inhaber ist Narzisst. Anfangs war er sehr Liebevoll und ich habe ich an ihn verliebt. ich habe ihm nie gesehen und trotzdem spürte ich manchmal ein starkes sexuelles Verlangen nach ihm. Das habe ich noch nie erlebt.
Kann das sein, wenn er den Wunsch hat mit mir Sex zu machen, dass ich das spüre?
Jetzt habe ich nicht mehr soviel Kontakt zu ihm aber ich muss immer wieder gegen diese Gefühle kämpfen und den Feind widerstehen, dann verschwinden die Gefühle.
Vielen Dank für dein Artikel, das hat meine Augen geöffnet. SHALOM
[ HKP : “I’m in an internet group and the owner is a narcissist. In the beginning he was very loving and I fell in love with him. I never saw him and yet I sometimes felt a strong sexual desire for him. I’ve never experienced that before. Can it be, if he has the desire to have sex with me, that I feel it? Now I don’t have so much contact with him anymore, but I have to fight against these feelings again and again and resist the enemy, then the feelings disappear.
Thank you for your article, it opened my eyes. SHALOM” ]
I will be praying for you that the chains of darkness will not capture you! Praise God for this word this woman gave today. Too many Christians are afraid to say the truth about these kinds of things they don’t come in and say anything! Praise God for this woman who was strong enough to speak it out because everything she said is very very true.
God bless you
Greetings dear, God bless you for being open to share your experience. What you’re describing is real and many have experienced also. Firstly I notice you didn’t share what type of “Internet group” you were a part of and you also mentioned that at first “he was very loving”. You never saw him as you said, but if it is a situation where you were having conversations with you chances are he might have love bombed you. Strong desire can be sparked by the lovebombing, intermittent attention, suggestive words, and (yes) spiritual influence even without meeting in person.. As mentioned in the message these persons house seducing spirits. You will now have to (1)repent of and renounce any agreement you might’ve come into with that man that is causing you to have those ungodly fantasies and inordinate affection. Cut the soul tie aloud in Jesus’ name, (3) Block/leave the group to stop the hook, (4) Delete chats/photos, (5) Worship & Word whenever the feelings surge they will pass. If you wish to discuss this further you can email me
Frage: spüre ich wenn der Narzisst sexuelle Fantasien/Gedanken hat? Habe ich dann Verlangen nach ihm? Das ist passiert grad heute. Ich habe kein Kontakt zu ihm und werde aus der Gruppe rausgehen wenn ich die Freiheit dazu habe. Ich bin schon 7x
Rausgegangen und wieder rein gegangen weil das ziehen so stark war. Zuerst werde ich, Pause machen und bitten, dass Gott das ganze so macht, dass ich rausgehen muss.
Vielen Dank für deinen Feedback, hat mir weiter geholfen Shalom
[ HKP : “Question: Do I feel when the narcissist has sexual fantasies/thoughts?
Do I have a desire for him then?
That happened just today.
I have no contact with him and will leave the group when I have the freedom to do so.
I’ve been 7x Went out and went back in because the pull was so strong.
First I will take a break and ask that God will make the whole thing so that I have to go out.
Thank you for your feedback, helped me further Shalom” ]
Meine Frage: Können sexuelle Gedanken und Fantasien von Narzisst mir den Verlangen
Nach ihm erwecken?
[ HKP : “My question: Can narcissist’s sexual thoughts and fantasies give me the desire Awaken after him?” ]
Amazing.