Christ is the only true foundation.
If the husband has not submitted to the authority of Christ and does not loves you as Christ loves the church then you should not submit to that authority and vice versa.
We are to submit to one another in the fear of God. Do not allow the twisting serpent to get you under bondage to a Jezebel control demon!
Yes this spirit works through men a well as women who have not submitted themselves to keep Gods commands to love one another as Christ loves us, period. Final answer – do not put a coma where God has put a period!
If love is not present then God is not present and it is not the foundation of Christ, all other foundations are sinking sand! If a person is not gentle, kind and, if that person is self seeking then they are in rebellion to the commands of God period and cannot lead anyone!
If the husband does not love, honor, cherish, lead, guide, protect and provide for you, then he has not submitted to Christ period!
If he does not love you as his own flesh and would give himself for you then he has not submitted to Christ, period!
Marriage is a honorable thing as it states in Hebrews chapter thirteen verse four. It is a holy institute and should be honored as such!
“Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye. Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you. Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: for every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him? Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets. Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it. Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.” Matthew 7:5-18.
“Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.” Proverbs 18:22.
“Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things,” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
“Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock: and the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock. And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall be likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand: and the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell: and great was the fall of it.” Matthew 7:24-27.
“Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them,” Matthew 7:20.
“But I would have you know, that THE HEAD OF EVERY MAN IS CHRIST; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God,” 1 Corinthians 11:3.
“Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God,” Ephesians 5:21.
“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another,” John 13:34-35.
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it,” Ephesians 5:25.
“Let no man beguile you of your reward in a voluntary humility and worshipping of angels, intruding into those things which he hath not seen, vainly puffed up by his fleshly mind, AND NOT HOLDING THE HEAD, from which all the body by joints and bands having nourishment ministered, and knit together, increaseth with the increase of God,” Collosians 2:18-19.
“Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, AND HAVE NOT CHARITY, I AM NOTHING, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing,” 1 Corinthians 13:1-33.
“For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself,” Galatians 6:3.
“But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: for he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, (LOVE) and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed,” James 1:22-25.
“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” James 4:7.
~ Kimberly Fuller