DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME TRYING TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY*** IT’S NOT HUMAN!
Every effort you make to love, will always be conditional, because your a human, trying to be God, I AM love! How can you exercising a love that you do not possess? Only I can love unconditionally. Your human nature will always look for some kind of thank you, for any sacrifice you make. You may pretend you did not want a thank you, but the fact that you are so pleased when someone is great-full, says that the opposite emotion exists when they are ungreatful.
You may fake it and say, “I did it for the Lord, I didn’t want a thank you”, yes you did, everyone does! Now if you had a choice, to give again, which one would you rather give it to? You would choose the greatful one, which is conditional love.
The whole world is saturated in conditional love, so there is no way you can start out today and say, I am going to love unconditionally; That commitment will last less than an hour. Being a human disqualifies you from producing My love. Conditional love is better than hate, but it will never change the world. I don’t possess agape love, I am agape love! Therefore, I am also the only being able to exercise agape love!
Please understand, “That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Unconditional love is born of the Spirit. Conditional love is produced through soul power. Your mind tells your emotions to show love to someone, your will enforces it. If it is not received your emotions suffer pain, and your mind says, do nothing more for that person.  So marvel not that I said, You must be born again.  Just as the wind blows where it decides, and you hear the sound, but cannot tell where it came from, and where it goes: so it is with every one that is born of the Spirit” John 3:6-8.
So here is how it works, you cannot manufacture unconditional love, because your carnal nature will not allow it. So I, by My Spirit must recreate the inner you, into love itself. In order for Me to do this, you must separate yourself from conditional love as much as possible. Then in turn, expose yourself to as much unconditional love as possible. Now being that I am this impossible love, you must expose yourself to Me and My word for many hours everyday. I am unconditional love, 1 John 4:8 Therefore you cannot receive this love, you also must become this love. This is only possible through spiritual osmosis, as the wind of the Spirit blows on you, while you are in My presence, over time He replaces your old natural conditional love, with My supernatural unconditional love.
If you will spend hours everyday in My presence, “I will grant you, according to the riches of My glory, to be strengthened with might by My Spirit in your inner man;  That I may dwell in your heart by faith; so that you will be rooted and grounded in unconditional love. 
Then you will be able to comprehend with all the saints, the breadth, and length, and depth, and height of this humanly impossible love;  And then to become My unconditional love, which passeth knowledge, and as a result, you will be filled with all the fulness of God” Ephesians 3:16-19.
So do not frustrate yourself by trying to unconditionally love people, sit with Me and let Me do a spiritual makeover, making you into unconditional love!
~ Jim Hammerle
|Jim Hammerle(1941-2017) began ministry working with David Wilkerson and Nicky Cruz, founding Teen Challenge Philadelphia. 6 times in the mission field pastoring a mission ship, 15 years with tv and radio, teaching, and preaching. As a retired businessman, Jim helped to feed widows and orphans in Uganda, helping Muslims find the Jesus who fed them. He became His banker and was privileged to give His money away, wherever He decided, so he also helping to build an orphanage in Haiti and investing in lives in the USA. Totally in love with his Lord, at age 73 he served in ministry at Victory Christian Church and lived every hour listening for his Heavenly Father’s voice. Jim passed away on May 23, 2017 to be with the LORD.|