THIS MAY HELP SOME COUPLES TO WAR FOR THEIR RELATIONSHIPS:
Many relationships could have been saved if the parties would have worked on the problem at the first indication of trouble.
There are persons today who may have moved on in life, but are yet holding on to the love that was not finish. They departed, not because they were no longer in love, but because they didn’t understand how to overcome the things that challenged the stability of that love.
Love will let you hear what has not been said. Learn how to hear with your heart and listen with your spirit.
Sometimes what is not vocally expressed is explained through actions. Pain, frustration, disappointment, or fear are not always voiced, but it can be demonstrated. Many times we say we didn’t see the “signs of trouble,” but in reality they were talking loud by the things they were doing or had stop doing.
A touch, a look or a gesture often says more than any vocal words can expressed. Effective communications require that you have more than the ability to hear sounds.
My heart aches for those couples who are either separated or have divorced, but yet love each other, but lost their relationship because neither one could hear the voice of each other heart.
I have seen couples break up and form other relationships, only to observe that the person whom they say they could no longer live with as a husband or wife, is what they look for in their new relationship partner. They find someone who has the look, actions and character, of the one that they left. They look for the familiar, because they departed from each other because of the challenges that came against the relationship and not because they didn’t love and care for each other.
You should never begin anything new while your love is yet in the soul of somebody else!
~ Apostle Barbara R. Thomas
|Apostle Barbara R. Thomas is founder of I Come to Heal Ministries, A Woman’s touch Ministry, The Next Dimension Global Outreach Ministries and Spoken Word School of Ministry and she is on a mission travelling the world proclaiming the Gospel for soul to be won to the Kingdom of God. She has a mandate on her life to help brings others to their divine purpose.|