Everyone on Facebook can’t be your Spiritual Adviser, Prayer Partner or Counsellor!
You will end up confused, too dependent, misled, more messed up and treating those you are running to, in dishonor.
You have the freedom to receive the Words released from different platforms — but all those ministering from those platforms cannot be your Pastor, Mentor or Spiritual Counsellor, Mama and Papa……😭
Discern your helper(s), align to them, honour them and grow with them.
God can do marvelous and great things in your life if you really align yourself correctly to the person who is meant to help you in this journey!
Stop running around, chasing everyone for Prayer and Counsel and then later you end up blaming this one for telling you to do this and the other for telling you to do that.
This is how discord, gossip and division has been down in The Body of Christ!
Surely if you come saying, Apostle Gideon told you to fast…. and Bishop Magdalena told you to sow 5k… and then I tell you that all you should do is serve God in ministry a or b and forget what the they told you… what will be the result here, if not confusion, dishonour and division?
Stop calling everyone Mum and Papa — it does not show honor. It shows dysfunction, confusion, immaturity and often leads to disillusionment.
How many Mamas and Papas can you really have?
Identify and develop a steady, healthy, respectful and mutual relationship with someone you have followed, respect and can see their fruit. This will bring you blessing and help you in ways more than one.
God will also bless this Covenant Relationship and not this ‘hit and run’ kind of abusive relationships, where people want to gain from someone without putting in anything.
Relationships have to be mutual — they scratch your back, you scratch theirs too. They cannot be parasitic or opportunistic, where one party is just ‘used’ and drained in your times of dire need.
It does not matter how desperate you are, you must follow the key principles of relationships, in order to see fruit and reap a harvest.
I have seen great relationships develop out of social media and other terrible, parasitic and toxic ones that end up draining and wasting a person.
God does not bless anyone who takes advantage of another. You can’t go higher by using another person as your stool or ladder!
If you are desperately in need of help, God will direct your steps to someone to help you, but remember this — that relationship is not just about ‘your desperate state’ — there is more The LORD can do for you through it and for the other too, if you quit making it about self.
Remember — it’s about Christ — and not you!
Also, don’t also hurt people who have helped you!
Don’t blame the people you ran to for help for how things are going in your life. It’s a process, you must go through with a divine helper and nobody you run to, is a magician. You can’t microwave a process!
You may delay many things in your life if you don’t fix this.
If this does not sit well with you, you have a problem and it is called ‘self-ish-ness’.
Today, choose to obey and align yourself to a genuine minister, whether they are big or small, with a building or no building, with a car or no car. This is where God will meet you.
He is a God of order and honor!
~ Esther Hadassah
Revivalist & Apostolic servant of Jesus Christ
Esther Hadassah is an apostolic minister and an end-time revival preacher. She has been serving in full time prophetic ministry for the past three years. The LORD has called her to preach the message of the holiness and repentance and to set the captives free.