Couples take heed!

 

Wives, when you get serious and start having your husband’s back in the spirit at all times……  You will witness and experience the changes to you and your household in every situation!

“But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God”   1 Corinthians 11:3

“Nor was man created for the woman, but woman for the man”   1 Corinthians 11:9

“But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him”   Hebrews 11:6

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband,  But she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones”   Proverbs 12:4

“Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.  For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.  Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,  that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,  that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.  So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.  For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.  For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.  “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”  This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.  Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband”
  Ephesians 5:22-33

Wives, stop warring with your husband and war instead with the spirits that torment him!  I’m not talking about no sorry rinky dink prayers that couldn’t bind a gnat, I’m talking about that type of intercession that seeks, kills and destroys by fire every hindrance that comes against your husband from his beginning all the way until he reunites with Jesus in heaven.

I’m talking about those prayers that shake up the heavens and the earth that only God remains (Hebrews 12:27-29)!   I’m talking about those powerful prayers you pray for everyone else including yourself, having left your husbands out of the equation.

Wives, get it together!  That man is trying to provide for you and he is whether you want to accept that or not.  As a man, he is not only carrying you, but your children together, the finances of your household, the household, his job/career and or business and you want to give him hell?  He deals with poison of the world on every level daily while making sure your safe and provided for.  Instead of praying and counseling with your girls every time they send you a text, call, email, homing pigeon, smoke signals or whatever, you better tend to your husband first and foremost by praying for that man and counseling him with the peace of gods word not a piece of your body!  The problem will still be there after the orgasm ends!

(Genesis 2:18) War for your husbands, wives!  Maybe you have not gotten what you complain about because you stay rebelling against your role as a rib instead of being a thorn!  We as wives in the kingdom must be sensitive to our husbands hearts as they do in fact trust us with them!  Not his penis nor his stomach, come on your husband is not a neanderthal, he needs your prayers not invited penetration!  That’s what the world does not the kingdom!  You can’t take an attitude of laziness with your husband and then go all out for your girls in warfare.  God is not in that mess!  You cannot give your loyalty in prayer and fasting to your homies and yet have nothing to the same man who sleeps in the same bed you do!  It’s so ridiculously backwards.  Have you ever thought that maybe the reason your marriage is “not working” is because you haven’t covered him through prayer like you should be doing and let alone fasting?

Could it be that just maybe he’s going through all types of hell because you leave him exposed for attack!   Wives, know your role and do it in Jesus’ name! (1 Corinthians 7)  Sex isn’t going to do it, cooking favorite foods won’t do it, material things can’t do it.  In fact, it’s manipulative or otherwise known as bewitchment!  Or (let me break out the big guns) witchcraft!   And you wonder why your marriage is going through some craziness!  None of these things can do what you are ordained and appointed by god to do for that man assigned to you!!!

Stop trying to dodge your assignment woman of God, get off of Facebook and off that phone with your girls, go tell your BFF you have to go home now!  (Matthew 16:23) because your right now at this moment your husband needs you, don’t let this world take your husband out of it!!

The world is a cold place for real, and being that satan hates godly unions, he is after your king!  Just like Herod was after Jesus.  Satan wants your king destroyed but how will you know that if you don’t bother to pray!  Don’t you see that pain of disappointment and the struggling even he can’t understand while he believes he’s doing all he can do to be more than a provider for you?

That man is trying really hard to not be thought of as an infidel as the word of God says. Woman of God, I urge you.G  o pray for your beloved!

Satan wants him dead by your own “hands”, keeping you distracted so he can shorten the years of your husband!  And husbands, I encourage you to do the same for your wives (1 Peter 3:7) lest your prayers be hindered, and children, honor your father and mother.

Let your days be long upon the earth. Don’t let the devil talk you out of your life.  I encourage you to get into prayer the same for your parents!  And to the girls and the homies especially the single and in wanting, I encourage you to back off these married women with all of your pulling and dumping your drama on them!  They are not married to you, they are married to their own husbands and you’re not it.  You are to be married to the Lord for His season and reasons (1 Corinthians 7:32-35)!

If you desire marriage also, then learn from them, don’t pull and or dump on them!  This may be the reason you’re not married as of yet due to the fact you’re not respecting of God’s covenant between them!  Examine yourselves, repent and pray for that marriage you’ve been pulling on and being a distraction in.  Go sow blessings into their union through intercession that you may one day have a union of your own!

Now husbands want a Godly marriage?  Wash your wives feet. John 13:1-17 shows that Jesus was not only doing this to point out the one who betray him, but in verse 14, Jesus explained that if as lord washed the disciples feet, we should wash each others as well.
Unfortunately, the church has taught that feet washing is reserved for the clergy or many churches have foregone this all together.  However husbands, you need to.  No you must wash your wives’ feet.  This is not a metaphor or an example of what you should do spiritually.  It means you prepare a bowl, tub, or dish of comfortable water, and while kneeling at your wives’ feet, you wash them and dry them.  You don’t do it in a manner that is sexual or obectifying, forced, displeasing or beneath you.  You do it in a manner that shows that you as her head are blessing her.  Now why should you go and do that you’re asking yourself.

Here’s why:
As a husband, you are to love your wives as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25).
Too many times husbands’ take this verse and give the reply that they would die for their spouses.  That’s great, remember that it’s appointed once for man to die (Hebrews 9:27), so technically, what you’re offering is already a given; not something you get to chose to opt out of.  So you think now that because you chose to die for your wives that settles everything?

1 Peter 3:7 states that you are to honor your wife.  Why?  So that your prayers aren’t hindered. [remember where two or three are gathered…  Matthew 18:19-20]  Mark 3:25 is clear, that a house divided against itself cannot stand.  Fail to honor your wives and watch your marriage crumble.

Proverbs 21:19 states that it is better to live in a desert than with a contentious and angry woman.  No honor, no peace…  No honor, prayers hindered… Making the connection?  Still you ask what purpose does washing your wives’ feet serve?

Remember Ephesians 5:25, that husbands are to love their wives like Christ loves the church?  Then if husbands are to love exactly like that, then husbands are to remember Christ as an example in all things with regards to their wives.  If Jesus whom you as husbands are striving to be like, was humbled enough to wash his disciples feet, who are you not to be willing to do the same thing?  Jesus went one step further and states in John 13:17 that if you know these things, the happier you’ll be.  Now who reading this is going to say that Jesus (remember god’s only begotten) is wrong?

So…
Feeling neglected by you wife?  Wash her feet.  Feel your wife doesn’t respect you?  Wash her feet.  Feel your wife doesn’t keep up her appearance for you? Wash her feet.  Feeling your wife is cheating?  Wash her feet.  Did you leave home and don’t know where to start in order to reconcile?  Start by washing your wives’ feet.  This simple act is such a powerful affirmation of love.  Had more churches started teaching this, there wouldn’t be so many divorces in the body of Christ.  Down low lifestyles amongst men in the body of Christ would be almost nonexistent.  Creeping spouses would be a term reserved only for those in the world.

Intimacy would return to marriages, because one only desires true intimacy with one who they feel they are receiving appreciation from.  Feet washing shows such appreciation.
Husbands, it’s time to return to the example of marriage set by Jesus’ life.  Notice he didn’t have to puff up his chest and tell everyone who he was…  Time for you as husbands to stop preaching to your wives all the scriptures she should be doing and start living the ones you’re not.  Want a Christ-centered marriage, time for husbands to be Christ-like.  Bless your wife by washing her feet… You’ll be happier you did.
By the grace of god,
~ Apostles Shawn and Jennifer Hobbs


Apostle Jennifer HobbsApostle Jennifer Hobbs of Whole Armour of God Ministries International, brings healing and deliverance through the guidance of the Holy Ghost while building congregations in accordance to Matthew 16:16-18. They specialize in deliverance and demonology; with understandings of the principles and principalities that rule this world (Ephesians 6:10-20) and how to best defeat them, in Jesus’ name. They have been blessed to be operating under Apostolic and Prophetic anointing, with signs and wonders following (Mark 16:17). The ultimate goal is lifting up the name of Jesus and proclaiming the Gospel accordingly (Ezekiel 2, 2 Corinthians 12:12).

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