We are responsible for what we speak not what others understand from what we speak.
Therefore, if you do not understand what one is speaking then pray for understanding, which is the mind of Christ Jesus. It just may be that you are the very one lacking the revelation or understanding of what the other is expressing.
Even Joseph did not fully understand what Mary was carrying and bringing forth (authentic seed/ Jesus/ word) until the angel visited him.
In his carnal mind he could not perceive what was happening or how it was happening, nor that what was in her and coming forth from her was of the HOLY GHOST/ SPIRIT.
He, in his carnal mind, was privately set on putting her away.
So pray before you judge and assume anything and wait on the revelation of Jesus Christ. Revelation cannot be explained it must be revealed.
“Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God,” James 1:19-20.
“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.” (spiritual discernment) Proverbs 4:7.
“But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned,” 1 Corinthians 2;14.
“And Jesus answered and said unto him, Blessed art thou, Simon Barjona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven,” Matthew 16:17.
“And he said unto them, Unto you it is given to know the mystery of the kingdom of God: but unto them that are without, all these things are done in parables,” Mark 4:11.
“Counsil in the heart of man is as deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out,” Proverbs 20:5.
~ Kimberly Fuller