Far too often we are letting our emotions put us at a disadvantage, and we have missed the divine moment of love for our lives.
Our hurts and wounds close off any interjection of love into our emotions.
We can say we are healed all day long, but the reality is that we have not allowed a real love encounter to come forth, because our issues have caused us to shut love out.
Some people are yet crippled when it comes to love. Because they have experience a dysfunctional side of love.
The inability to accept the pureness of love, causes them to reject any real attempts of love reentering their lives.
It’s not really the person they are rejecting, but it’s the emotional side of the truth of that person’s love that they are afraid of embracing.
The encounter of a contaminated love, places a fear of being loved, within their emotions.
Because they have given themselves to a love that left them wounded, abused and hurt, they became mistrustful of any indications of love.
These are persons who have the ability to love someone, but not the ability to receive love back, because receiving love has left emotional and mental damage that closes off their emotional responses to accepting that they can be loved, without pain.
Again I say, I have seen so many men and women who have missed the opportunity to experience the truth of love, because they won’t let love back in.
They will sabotage a relationship to prove to themselves that they don’t deserve happiness or love.
The sad thing is, not many persons are able to recognize the truth of why they keep failing in relationships.
They don’t see the sabotage that they create, because they point the finger at situations or the person they are in relationship with, because they don’t want to admit that they are yet dealing with insecurities, low esteem, or emotional and mental issues.
Too many in the Body of Christ are wearing false masks of happiness and wholeness, when in reality they need to yet be healed.
Running from the problem will never solve it. Facing your fears, overcoming your relationship blocks, and being healed from within, are necessary.
God won’t keep sending you love while you continue to reject it!
Some of you don’t realize that the enemy is trying to make you nothing but a lonely, bitter old woman, or a desperate lustful old man.
Don’t let his plan succeed. Healing is available.
I’m praying today for emotional, mental and spiritual healing for those who have been hurt by a dysfunctional love, so that they can receive love once again back into their lives.
And I can help, because not only do I have revelation, but I been through this.
I’ve learned how to not only love, but to receive love again. And yes I recognize a mask!
~ Apostle Barbara R. Thomas
Apostle Barbara R. Thomas is founder of I Come to Heal Ministries, A Woman’s touch Ministry, The Next Dimension Global Outreach Ministries and Spoken Word School of Ministry and is on a mission, traveling the world, proclaiming the Gospel, for souls to be won to the Kingdom of God. She has life mandate to help bring others to their divine purpose.