I was driving and thinking about Abraham this morning, how twice he allowed fear to cause him to lie and uncover his wife to another man, (Genesis 12:10-20 & 20:1-8).
When you have a fearful husband, you have a man who is self preserving.
Here in both scenarios, Abraham puts Sarah in a vulnerable position by opening a door of adultery and infidelity into his marriage.
Instead of protecting his wife, he offers her up as a sacrifice to save himself.
I’m sure Sarah loved Abraham and he used her love for him to get her to agree with his survival scheme. Each time Abraham and Sarah lied, it was right after God spoke words of prosperity to Abraham.
He allowed fear to cause him to doubt God would protect him even after he had just spoke blessings upon him.
Even though Sarah loved him, I could imagine what may have went through her mind concerning her husband. Here is a man whom she adored, trusted and depended on, putting her in a compromising position, but yet God kept her from being touch each time.
Ladies, there are times when you are married to someone who only thinks of himself and in his selfishness he puts you in a bad situation.
Just know that God will protect you and keep your name character integrity mind intact. You may experience some discomfort but in the end He will bring you out.
“Now there was a famine in the land, and Abram went down to Egypt to dwell there, for the famine was severe in the land. And it came to pass, when he was close to entering Egypt, that he said to Sarai his wife, “Indeed I know that you are a woman of beautiful countenance. Therefore it will happen, when the Egyptians see you, that they will say, ‘This is his wife’; and they will kill me, but they will let you live. Please say you are my sister, that it may be well with me for your sake, and that I may live because of you.”
So it was, when Abram came into Egypt, that the Egyptians saw the woman, that she was very beautiful. The princes of Pharaoh also saw her and commended her to Pharaoh. And the woman was taken to Pharaoh’s house. He treated Abram well for her sake. He had sheep, oxen, male donkeys, male and female servants, female donkeys, and camels.
But the Lord plagued Pharaoh and his house with great plagues because of Sarai, Abram’s wife. And Pharaoh called Abram and said, “What is this you have done to me? Why did you not tell me that she was your wife? Why did you say, ‘She is my sister’? I might have taken her as my wife. Now therefore, here is your wife; take her and go your way.” So Pharaoh commanded his men concerning him; and they sent him away, with his wife and all that he had,” Genesis 12:10-20.
“And Abraham journeyed from there to the South, and dwelt between Kadesh and Shur, and stayed in Gerar. Now Abraham said of Sarah his wife, “She is my sister.” And Abimelech king of Gerar sent and took Sarah.
But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night, and said to him, “Indeed you are a dead man because of the woman whom you have taken, for she is a man’s wife.”
But Abimelech had not come near her; and he said, “Lord, will You slay a righteous nation also? Did he not say to me, ‘She is my sister’? And she, even she herself said, ‘He is my brother.’ In the integrity of my heart and innocence of my hands I have done this.”
And God said to him in a dream, “Yes, I know that you did this in the integrity of your heart. For I also withheld you from sinning against Me; therefore I did not let you touch her. Now therefore, restore the man’s wife; for he is a prophet, and he will pray for you and you shall live. But if you do not restore her, know that you shall surely die, you and all who are yours.”
So Abimelech rose early in the morning, called all his servants, and told all these things in their hearing; and the men were very much afraid,” Genesis 20:1-8.
~ Apostle Barbara R. Thomas
Apostle Barbara R. Thomas is founder of I Come to Heal Ministries, A Woman’s touch Ministry, The Next Dimension Global Outreach Ministries and Spoken Word School of Ministry and is on a mission, travelling the world, proclaiming the Gospel, for souls to be won to the Kingdom of God. She has life mandate to help bring others to their divine purpose.