There are times when the people of God may have disagreements among each other and they have to walk in forgiveness toward someone.
All things are lawful but not expedient. There are times when you can, or it’s wisdom not to, directly deal with someone. Now those persons of humility you can go to them and admit you were wrong (if that was the case) or just apologize.
These will humbly accept your apology and 99% of the time, apologize themselves.
Then there are those prideful, self righteous, always right think everybody should bow down to them persons. These persons, when you go to them, will stir up more strife make you feel beneath them, start a greater argument, or gloat, because you did come and apologize.
These persons you just need to forgive and move on, because confrontation with them causes more problems. With these two persons, one will make you break out in a praise, while the other one will make you catch a case and be on the news.
Sometimes these saints who think they better than everybody and want to lord over you, will make you get an “I will knock your two front teeth down your throat” anointing. You have to discern what spirit you dealing with, before confronting people.
Sometimes you can go to them and apologize and then there are times, you will have to forgive them and move on!
~ Apostle Barbara R. Thomas